The good news: in the end, they’ll leave your heart full— if a little leaky.
How many heartbreaks have you had? Wait, back that up. How many ‘big loves’ came before that?
If you’re lucky, you’ll have a few Life. Stopping. Loves. in your life —some say three, each for a ‘reason’ — plus some false starts with fast ends in between.
Sorry for your luck.
Just kidding, of course…ish.
“Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
-Poem by Alfred, Lord Tennyson, 1833
Never liked this quote — it’s overused (whoops), comes across patronizing and is the actual last thing anyone who just lost a Life. Stopping. Love. would want to be told.
But…it’s the truth.
If you’ve collapsed under the weight of your own breaking heart it’s because you held a love bigger than life to begin with.
You have to learn the lessons — those #blessed bleeping lessons that feel like torture at the time— to appreciate the ethereal mess that love is.